Are There Different Types of Women Like There Are For Men? (And What Type Of Personality Would You Go Best With)

     For the past month we have been looking into if there are different types of men. You are probably wondering if there are different types of men does that mean there are different types of women? Well there is...sorta.

    God made two different blueprints of the human race. Male and female. They both have their differences. Their insides are just as different as their outsides. God created men and women different and he expects us to perform different in the way we function in life and in marriage.

     When God saw how lonesome Adam was he said "It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make a help meet for him" Genesis 2:18. All of us women know we have a need for guys and they need us. Without each other we are lonesome. Adam came to understand the need he felt for a helpmeet. He caused Adam to go into a deep sleep, then God woke him up to his new bride. Genesis 2:23 Says "And Adam said, this is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: She shall be called woman, because she was taken out of man. From this passage we can see that the woman was made from man's body... after man's image. A woman reflects the man from which she was derived. She was made from him and for him. He needed a helper who could take care of his needs so God created a helpmeet, a woman the perfect match. Our soul, mind and emotion are created to help men.

    That brings up a question. If women are created in man's image and men come in three different types does that mean women are made in three different types too?

   We are...sorta. Since we are female, we are a more feminine versions of visionaries, steadies, And Kings. A good word to describe us girls types are dreamers for visionaries, servants for steadies, and go-to-girls- for kingly type men.                                                                                                                                                        

   I am going to go detail into what each girl type is, just as we did the three types of men.

   Just like the tree types of men, we are not or can never be balanced with all three types, but it is possible for us girls just like the guys to have more than one type mixed into us. Just not balanced out because we are not perfect.                                                                                  

           Dreamers  

     I am a Dreamer, similar to a visionary. I love to create things, figure out problems, design, paint, write, and even daydream. A female's type is not as dominant as a man. So we are more chilled out then men. If you are a dreamer like me then you need to remember to keep your head out of the clouds as you dance your way into your vision of the future. It's best to help keep your heads out of the clouds if you spend your youth honing down your gifts. 

    An example from the Bible of a visionary is Elijah or Joseph. A female version would be  Delilah or Sarai. 

         Servants

    I also have servant in me I have about 80% of dreamer and 20% of servant.  Before we go on I want to make one thing clear. Men can not change the type they were made in. It's just the way God created them.  Women can change, but only when needed to compliment a man's personality. It's one of the perks we get for being his helpmeet. Anyways back to the servant type girl. Servants are sweet, love to serve others, and love to help the sickly.  It is important for servant girls to not become a pitiful, lazy person. Always keep in mind that a good servants is a encourager not an enabler. I know it's hard but don't do stuff for other people that they should be doing for themselves. Instead cheer them on as they do their job. A steady type man in the Bible is harder to determine because they are more laid back. A servant type girl in the Bible would be Ruth you can see it in her ability to serve and be faithful to her family.

     Go-to-girl

   A go-to-girl has order, she knows what she wants and asks others to do it. They are not overly bossy but they can be if they don't control it. A good helpmeet should know her place with a man and respect that he is supposed to be in control Ephesians 5:22. Go-to-girls are strong, capable, and likes taking care of the greater number of people. They have a lot of confidence, and have strong opinions. An example of a Kingly type man in the Bible is David, A go-to-girl found in the scriptures would be Deborah or Hannah.

      That Brings Up On More Question. What Type Would You Best Go With?

       Now If a girl wants to, she can go good with any guy but typically opposites attract. So you and your husband will probably be opposite types.

     Servant Marries a king

   If you are a servant type girl and you marry a king, you will need to be willing to be there for your kingly type man 24/7, waiting on him hand and foot. The servent type girl has to have confidence in her kingly type man so he can be strong. This type goes good together because the king likes to be served and for his wife to listen to him and the servant girl likes to serve and follow others instructions.

   Go-to-girl marries a king

  If a go-to-girl marries a kingly type they WILL HAVE a lot of hard times and big fights because both of them will have their own ideas and both want to lead, but if the women learns to respect her man and let him take control they can be a strong couple. Although their life will be very difficult with each other. 

  Dreamer marries a kingly Type man

  A dreamer will need to learn to wait for their man to lead. Dreamers, do not be upset when your kingly type man takes the credit for your ideas. The better people love the king, the more he will honor his queen. Together the Kingly type man and Dreamer type woman would make an excellent team, as the Dreamer can dream up ideas for her man and will go out of her way to do things for him, and do things for him while the Kingly man goes out in the world to make a diffrence.

   Servant marries a visionary

    A servant girl needs to make sure she has a purpose in life before she gets married to a visionary so when he becomes less focused on you and more focused on a project you can still have a life full of adventure. The mix of a visionary and servent will not be very good together as they are both from a more teneder sided natures. their whole life they would have lots of people taking advantage of them.

  Go-to-girl marries a visionary

    If a go-to-girl marries a visionary she needs to let him take control, let him make the adventures and not plan too much, but make a way for his ideas to come true and go with the flow. This type would go great together, the visionary will come up with the ideas and the go-to-girl will help make it happen. All in all they would make a great team.

   Dreamer marries a visionary 

   This combination would not go very good together because both would have their thought too much in the clouds. Both would have dreams but neither would come make their dreams reality becase their is no order in these personalities. 

    Servant marries a steady

   This combination would not be good together, unfortunately both are too easygoing and would never get anywhere in life together. They would be constantly annoyed with each others laziness and never get any work done, and would always be known as the "lazy couple"

    Go-to-girl marries a steady

   A go-to-girl would go great with a steady. The go-to-girl would tell the steady man what to do and he would not think she is overbearing. The only problem is that he might feel he can't take control ever, even if you want him to. The go-to-girl has to remember to let him lead sometimes.

   Dreamer marries a steady

 If a dreamer marries a steady she really has to try and keep her head out of la la land so they can get stuff done. If she can do that they would make a pretty good team and be able to help each other,  Although they will have lots of fights about who should take the lead, never finding a balance with leading

  Thanks to one of my favorite writers, Debi Pearl for your book inspiring me to write this blog. Parts of this Blog were taken from her book.  If you would like to read more on this subject you can read Preparing To Be A Help Meet - By Debi Pearl.

     Remember to always have the Joy, Joy, Joy, Joy down in your heart, and always be faithful to God (Philippians 4:4 1 Peter 1:8-9)

                                    For Joyfully Faithful, I'm Sarai.